links: Serious, Sublime, Silly

Apr. 1st, 2026 01:17 pm
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Serious

I can’t summarize my complicated feelings about Metafilter. One reason I continue reading is what I learn from discussions like

Big Mean Trans Thread
This is a thread for trans people to vent and be righteously uncharitable about transphobic bullshit on Metafilter and otherwise.

https://metatalk.metafilter.com/26888/big-mean-trans-thread

“Metatalk” is where members vent about the site itself; this discussion responds to a couple of (now-banned) jerks who dropped turds in the weekly LGBTQIA+ News Post fro 27 March.

The Meta posters taught me that the terms AFAB and AMAB have been appropriated by anti-trans bigots to emphasize that “real” gender is what the doctors put on the birth certificate. I won’t be using those terms any more. I have no need to know someone’s bodily configuration; if it’s relevant, they’ll tell me.

Sublime

[youtube.com profile] HTXStudio invents Rube Goldberg-level technology, then produces succinct, hilarious, open-captioned (but not described) vertical videos about how and why they did it. Towards the goal of limiting doomscrolling in general and phone use in bed, they made a bed for smartphones:

Watch on YouTube or

stream it here )

Silly

April Fool’s delight at AO3 — be sure to check the upper left corner!

Spotlight on Omegas
Omegas are the glue that holds us all together, providing the essential social lubricant needed for our society to function—and yet they are often maligned and treated as lesser-than. This April, we are changing part of our logo to highlight omegas as part of our commitment to the inclusion and wellbeing of our omega volunteers and users.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260401173413/https://archiveofourown.org/admin_posts/34621

Paradise 2.08 (Season finale)

Mar. 31st, 2026 06:09 pm
selenak: (Catherine Weaver by Miss Mandy)
[personal profile] selenak
In which season 2 comes to an end with a bang and a whimper both.

Spoilers have just heard there will be a third and final season, which is good )
jesse_the_k: kitty pawing the surface of vinyl record (scratch this!)
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The musician explains:

In 2018, I recorded and filmed a cover of "Yellow" by Coldplay under my former name, Lots Holloway. In 2026, I returned to the exact same place to film it again, this time as Dylan Holloway (Dylan And The Moon). What you're watching is both versions, woven together.

Lyrics at the band’s page: https://www.coldplay.com/song/yellow/

Watch on YouTube or stream it here )

For all Mankind 5.01

Mar. 29th, 2026 01:25 pm
selenak: (Spacewalk - Foundation)
[personal profile] selenak
I finished s4 of For All Mankind with mixed feelings - you can read my review of the season 4 finale here, which goes into details as to why - but not so much that I wasn't curious about s5, which started on Friday.

Spoilers finally found out what happened to Oleg from The Americans )

Buttering my muffin.

Mar. 26th, 2026 07:40 am
goodbyebird: Vagrant Queen: Elida looks disgruntled. (Vagrant Queen)
[personal profile] goodbyebird
+ I'm back at work, though one day later than I expected to be. It'll be a shorter trip of only four weeks, so now I just need the fishery to be good. I'd love to come home without my brain leaking out my ears; it took me over two weeks to recoup last time.

+ 2026 is shaping up to be a great movie year. I highly recommend both The Testament of Ann Lee and Project Hail Mary, plus there's both Pillion and Dune 3 to look forwards to. I guess I can hope really hard they don't fuck up Ready or Not 2? (I'm definitely showing up either way, if only for the cast)

+ Other things to look forward to: Microsoft Flight Simulator is set to get its VR update sometime next month. So long as it's not borked on the base PS5, that's a day one purchase for me. There's a bunch of cities to fly around, a safari/hot balloon thing, helicopter rescue missions, etc. It might even be just the thing to let my mom play.

+ And on the subject of my mom: she'll be moving back home! My brother and his partner are splitting up, and my nephew is old enough that she doesn't see him that much anymore, so now she's looking for an apartment to buy. I'm really happy about it. Both for my own sake and for hers.

Now I just have to bee diligent with looking for places we can visit in England. Hoping we can do a fun two week vacation there in August.

Go treat your inner child.

Mar. 24th, 2026 05:18 pm
goodbyebird: Parks and Recreation: Tom Haverford thinks you should treat yo self. (P&R cashmere velvet candy cane)
[personal profile] goodbyebird
Hey. Psst. Were you one of those kids that would find a pretty rock when out walking and you'd carry it with you for the rest of that adventure and put it in your pocket and whatnot? Go see Project Hail Mary at the cinema. Don't check out the trailer, just go.

(also featured: science! teamwork! nice knitted sweaters!)

Paradise 2.06 + 2.07

Mar. 23rd, 2026 04:19 pm
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[personal profile] selenak
In the former, Jane sees herself as Alice to Sinatra's Luther, while in the later, Sinatra is informed it all comes down to Vader and Luke.

Spoilers are saying hello to.... )

Shadow Update: Hosting & Bedding

Mar. 22nd, 2026 06:40 pm
jesse_the_k: central cone filled with soft spikes, tired lavender petals droop straight down (coneflower mid August)
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We were delighted by Shadow’s response to his first visitors last night. We kept him crated until they’d seated themselves ready to watch the first two eps of Slings & Arrows. He made not a peep when they arrived nor during our typically uproarious dinner. Once we let him out of the crate, he observed them closely. One guest had recently enjoyed a hot-and-sour sauce on her egg roll. She invited him closer and he licked her hands! He permitted the other to pet his back. He curled up in his bed (immediately below the TV) and peacefully admired the assembled multitude.

Early this AM MyGuy placed one of Shadow’s beds on my side of our bed. Around 6AM he tip tip tap tipped into the bedroom and curled up in it, keeping me company for 45 minutes.

He was in the breezeway with MyGuy 20 minutes ago, having just come back from his evening constitutional. Just as his lead was unhooked, the leonine March wind blew open the door to the backyard. Shadow was out like a shot. MyGuy called him back, but he kept backing up. At last, MyGuy leaned on the garage holding the door open, and Shadow scooted right back in to the breezeway.

The wisdom around rescues is a rule of 3: 3 days to decompress, 3 weeks to learn routines, and 3 months to feel fully at home. We’re on track.

(Got to get some Shadow icons!)

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1. What was the reason you began a Dreamwidth or LiveJournal account (or both)?

LJ: In the late 1990s, various London-based bisexuals used a message board site whose name I can't currently remember. The particular one they created was called 'drunk bisexuals' - the founders were part of the section of the London Bisexual Group that stopped going to the group itself but still met up on Fridays at a nearby gay pub / an 'indie' club night, Popstarz.

The site had a load of problems (messages disappeared permanently after a semi-random time, for example) but it was where the people are - the eternal issue with the success or failure of a social media site.

One day, one of the Simons (there were at least five people called 'Simon' in the group, and they had Spice Girl nicknames) posted that soon no-one would be posting there, because everyone would have moved to LJ. They were right. Before long, a big chunk of the UK bi community was on it.

I bought a permanent account not long afterwards.

A large chunk of the UK bi people left for the evilFB when it arrived, but I still valued what was better about LJ (almost everything, apart from having fewer people I knew posting / reading!)

DW: the author of LJ, Brad Fitzpatrick, sold LJ to blogging company Six Apart in (checks) 2005. That brought problems - they started showing ads to people without paid accounts, for example. They sold it to a Russian company in 2007 (LJ was huge there) and that brought more.

When DW was announced, using revised LJ code, in 2008, I paid for a permanent paid account at the start without hesitation.

For years, I cross-posted DW posts to LJ. I stopped when the Russian LJ owners moved the servers to Russia and you knew that their security services had access to everything.

2. How many DW or LJ communities do you subscribe to?

Not many. The one for discussing The Americans TV series was the last serious one.

3. Do you have a favourite community or one you check out often to see what's new?

No. The Americans ended its run years ago. A couple are on my default reading page but very rarely have anything new.

4. How did you pick your user name?

'Ian' was long gone on LJ. When looking through a list of lapsed .com domains around 2000, 'lovingboth.com' was available, so I registered it. It was also available on LJ, so...

With the move to DW, 'Ian' was available (and it's me) but partly to retain continuity with the LJ, this is the real account.

5. If you could change your user name, would you?

Breaking web links is just Wrong, and I think doing that would do that.

The Friday Five: Journal History

Mar. 20th, 2026 04:14 pm
jesse_the_k: comic me in bed with cukes on eyes (JK loves cucumbers)
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From that reliable source of journal prompts, [community profile] thefridayfive

1) What was the reason you began a Dreamwidth or LiveJournal account (or both)?

Volunteered for WisCon in 2007, clearly LJ was where everything was Happening. Took me a year to figure out the culture. Moved to DW on 1 May 2009.

2) How many DW or LJ communities do you subscribe to?

79! Most are evidently dormant. (DW comms never die.)

3) Do you have a favorite community or one you check out often to see what's new?

I love the questions and answers at [community profile] little_details, where writers seek specifics about an infinite assortment of facts: paint manufacturing, historical Chinese tornadoes, NZ slang for three examples.

4) How did you pick your user name?

It’s a riff on my wallet name which I’ve been using it since 2001.

5) If you could change your user name, would you?

Nope.

tinny: Lin Yiyang and Yin Guo looking at each other, about to kiss, in soft yellow-orange colors (cdrama_snowstorm_kiss)
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The current round at [community profile] fandom10in30 is Hearts and Flowers. Since I already made 20 heart-themed icons for the ships20in20 round, I concentrated on flowers this time.

Enjoy!


8 Wu Lei-related, 2 other cdrama )

Comments are love - and concrit, too. <3 Take and use as many icons as you like, credit is appreciated. Texture and brush makers: here in my resource post.

Previous icon posts:

stuff

Mar. 19th, 2026 01:12 pm
umbo: Buck and Tommy's iconic first kiss, with purple swirly background (buck/tommy)
[personal profile] umbo
It's more than halfway through Spring Break already, and I am Not Ready for it to end! I have managed to fix and open my 2nd 8-weeks class, so that's good, but I still have accessibility shit to work on, plus my house remains a pigsty, my laundry still needs to be done (not to mention put away, including previous laundry), plus I need to change my sheets.

I am making progress on my BuckTommy Bang fic, though! I'm currently working on chapter 3 and have reached 7645 words. I'm also feeling the need for some cheerleading-type beta. I want some feedback on what I've already written!

I really do need to find some bucktommy icons. Or some LFJ icons. He was so good as Park the Shark! And there remains hope that he will show up in 911 again, perhaps as soon as tonight.

Oh hey, I just found one and uploaded it, yay. Except it's not letting me pick it. Maybe I will need to edit the post, because you all need to see the glory that was Tommy kissing Buck into his bisexual awakening!

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